Parent's Guide to Vocations

An Introduction

As Catholics, we believe that God has a special plan for everyone. Life is not a random haphazard existence; rather there is special meaning and purpose to life. The meaning of life is a question that philosophers and scholars have debated for years. As people of faith, we believe that we are called to know, love, and serve God. All people are called to holiness (that is our common baptismal call), but then God calls each of us to live out our lives in specific and meaningful ways. For many that ultimately means to marry and raise a family; for some it means living a good, holy, single life in the world; for still others it is a call to live as a priest or religious. As a parent, you want what is best for your child, but (obviously since your call from God was not priesthood) are not sure what to do if your son mentions this possibility. What should I say or do? Even if they never mention it, is this something that you ought to bring up for them to consider? Whatever the case, this section is for you!

• A few thoughts to consider
• Balancing Interfering with Interfacing
• Decision-making typically involves seeking the advice of others. Your encouragement is part of a bigger picture. Your son will talk with a vocation director in the process of deciding whether or not to apply to a seminary. Friends may provide advice. In the end, life is a gift from God, discerned (discovered and affirmed) by an individual AND the Church. As long as your son knows that he has your support, he will have the freedom to make good and sound decisions.
• Career vs. Lifetime Commitment

An important Reminder:

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